tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5981381663510617382.post7377123459767287033..comments2021-02-09T22:47:49.475-07:00Comments on Still Not Pregnant: 10 Words - MollySTILL not pregnanthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00585848400165731666noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5981381663510617382.post-54848909539423507532013-04-10T11:59:17.268-06:002013-04-10T11:59:17.268-06:00I agree with Steph... This struggle is very simila...I agree with Steph... This struggle is very similar to prolonged singleness. The feeling of " everyone gets a husband and a baby but me." I've always identified best with those struggling with infertility, because the frustration is so similar. " don't try so hard! Don't try what? Going on dates? Meeting people? Wanting to be loved?<br /><br />It's supposed to happen in daily life, am I supposed to stop living daily life so that I'm not tortured by having hope? That's like telling a couple to stop having sex so that they can get pregnant!!<br /><br />The struggle is very similar ... My life continues as if I'm infertile - but in reality, I'll never know.<br />The end result... No baby for me. <br /><br />You have more partners in your loss than you know. All the single women are right here with you. ( but we don't even get to have sex!)TRShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09801686710086039781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5981381663510617382.post-39402064714673226532013-04-02T08:27:26.410-06:002013-04-02T08:27:26.410-06:00This PERFECTLY describes the infertility Journey. ...This PERFECTLY describes the infertility Journey. Thank you so much for sharing! and I hope you won't mind If I link your blog and pass it on :)Tiffertoeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11896107928297534506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5981381663510617382.post-67806435475939069712013-03-30T06:22:51.252-06:002013-03-30T06:22:51.252-06:00Oh Molly. You are so gracious, optimistic and capa...Oh Molly. You are so gracious, optimistic and capable - I can bet that not a single person could define you as anything but. When I lost my pregnancy halfway through I felt the most profound sense of failure and derailment which felt unbelievably unfair and undeserved. And I hated that I couldn't bare to see any of my friends who were due around the same time as me. They felt deserted for doing nothing wrong and some were even mad at me for it, and then I felt doubly awful! I'm coming to find that more than a few women have endured this, and they are the ones we can instantly click with and comfort, like we've served in the same war and can share our stories with mutual understanding and not feel so singled out but entrusted with such a trial. <br /><br />You have a great family and support system; you will know what to do and when to do it. Let yourself grieve and regroup. Things will work out!Annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07462674322951837021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5981381663510617382.post-58476404488375544112013-03-29T17:32:54.477-06:002013-03-29T17:32:54.477-06:00I'm praying for you.I'm praying for you. Wife of a Wounded Soldierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07113425984851489988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5981381663510617382.post-46741436041989991212013-03-29T14:54:50.889-06:002013-03-29T14:54:50.889-06:00I am amazed at applicable this list is to so many ...I am amazed at applicable this list is to so many trials! I am single and in my 30's and I desperately desire a happy marriage. All 10 of these apply just as easy to that situation. Or to many others - divorce, death of a loved one, severe illness, etc. The awkward "why aren't you married?" questions, the loneliness, the hope and cry cycles, the constant next step question, the inability to plan just in case I've met someone by then, etc. Though you feel like the "one" in this trial, there are many others that feel like the "one" in theirs - the single girl who can't handle one more bridal shower, the guy who thought his cancer was is remission, the process of a divorce, etc. Though we may be the one in our trial, it gives us tremendous empathy for the ones in theirs. I may not have your trial (or at least not yet - I have to get married first to find out!), but I sure feel like we understand each other! You're not as alone as it may seem! There are many besides those struggling with infertility that understand! Stephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03612680207127245972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5981381663510617382.post-83910460046025473332013-03-28T21:59:56.235-06:002013-03-28T21:59:56.235-06:00You have definitely NOT defined yourself as "...You have definitely NOT defined yourself as "unhappy or jealous," but as strong, hopeful, and HUMAN! Still sending lots of love your way.Devon T.noreply@blogger.com